Introducing my newest Blessingโ€ฆ โ€œMjโ€

Introducing Martin Murray Jr โ€œMjโ€ August 17, 21 7lbs9oz๐Ÿ’™ It is bittersweet to say Mj is out final child, but I would not want it any other way! He’s been the perfect addition to our family! My pregnancy was hard, but birthing him was challenging as well, along with other traumatizing events that took place…

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How it started…

How it startedโ€ฆ I do not believe my husband and I ever said how we met, or how it started. Most of the time when someone asks us, we usually do not go into details. Funny thing is there are millions of people who have met like we did, but maybe it did not lead…

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And just like that my life changed…..

And just like that my life changedโ€ฆโ€ฆ How it all started: I can remember it like yesterday, although it has been 8 whole years. I was in my first marriage, 9 months pregnant, & the most unhappy I have ever been in my life. ย When you are deep into a situation it is hard to…

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The Five Love Languages, Do you Know Yours? ๐Ÿ’œ

Love Languages! With Valentines Day right around the corner, have you thought about what to give or do for your partner? Or if you are single have you considered what to do in celebration of loving yourself? Interesting enough we all love differently, but also those we love has specific languages or ways they prefer…

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#Motherhood #TeamNoKids….

Motherhoodโ€ฆ. Letโ€™s talk about it! If you log into Instagram right now and type in the hashtag #motherhood, there are over 23.1 million post on or about Motherhood. If you look up the #teamnokids hashtag there are 79.8k post about women/men celebrating their choice to not procreate. I am not against #teamnokids, nor am I…

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Love is NOT always COMPLICATED

Love is NOT always complicated. Believe it or not love does not have to always be complicated. I was that young girl that believed if my boyfriend did not argue with me then he was boring and the relationship would not last. I remember my 19-year-old self starting petty and unnecessary arguments with my boyfriend…

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Grieving is normal…

In my years of living I have seen my fair share of death, but there are a few that really broke my whole heart. I have seen death a few times too many, & even once thought I wanted to be a mortician. For me death is something I know death is supposed to happen…

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Body Positivity starts with Self โค

Wikipedia defines Body Positivity as โ€œa social movement initially created to empower and shed light on plus size women and men, while challenging the ways in which society presents and views the physical body. The movement advocates the acceptance of all bodies regardless of physical ability, size, gender, race, or appearanceโ€. Body positivity. (2020, November…

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What does love means to you?

What does love means to you? Have you ever been in Love? If so is/was it a healthy loving relationship? Webster Dictionary defines love as: ***Just as a heads up this post will be personal and could bring up some emotions** Just thinking about how I grew up perceiving love and how I finally ended…

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Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace….

If I was given a $1.00 for every time I was asked โ€œHow did you move on with kids?โ€ โ€œWere you scared?โ€ โ€œHow do you co-parent with a new partner involved?โ€. First let me state this, when I said vows and became a wife, I never thought it would lead to a divorce. I filed…

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